Tuesday, November 17, 2015





Perception


Here's a look back on a subject we all need to be reminded of; perception.  Your perception affects everything in your life.  It is the most important subject to truly become aware of.

Let's start with the Dictionary.com definition: "the act or faculty of apprehending by means of the senses or of the mind; cognition; understanding." Everything we know in life is filtered through our own perception. Our perception is developed throughout our life by the experiences we've had & the knowledge we've learned. The only way to change your life to a more joyful life is to change your perception of everything. Yes, I know that sounds like a big task, but actually it's just an effort, on your part, to look at things differently.

No matter how objective you think you are in life. Everything is affected by your perception & to complicate things a little more, everything you read, hear or see is someone’s else's perception which you then interpret through your own perception. So everything in life is filtered to some extent at least twice (1st by who's saying it & 2nd by your own).

What happens over our life is that we tend to get entrenched in the way we perceive things & this leads us to seeing things in the same pattern we've always known. The problem with this is that if we want to change our life we need to break these old patterns & look at things differently to begin to find more joy.

So how do we start to do this? There's no defined way it's whatever seems to work for you. What I've done over the past several years is to challenge myself to look at everything differently. I allow the 1st thought into my head & recognize it. I then challenge myself to look at it from at least one other point of view. The next step for me when it comes to other people is to not judge. I let go of all my preconceived ideas of what a person is I don't judge them by what they are wearing, what their appearance is what race or religion (if I know) or what sexual preference. I instead try to understand why they are saying what they are saying. In other words I try to understand their point of view, their perception of what they are telling me.

I believe strongly that every person that comes into your life is there for a reason. This reason is usually to teach something you need to know. Either something about yourself (as talked about in "reflections") or something you need to know to move forward in your life. If you try to open yourself up to this idea you begin to see the world in a different way.

For me the final step is to also look at everything else in your life (that's not people) in the same open (new) way. We can discover messages from everything that enters our life....everything is there for a reason! That's the way the universe works. (To learn more about the meaning of animals that show up in your life a great book is "Animal Speaks" by Ted Andrews).

Change your perception & your new life will begin to unfold in front of you.

Until next time,



Bill




Quote of the day: "Perception is your filter of the universe. Change your perception & the world will change around of you!"

3 comments:

Jane said...

Perception is powerful just as attitude is powerful. Change your attitude, change your life. If we want joy in our life we have to seek it, see it, and claim it. Joy won't come find us.

I really like how you talk about how you change your perception. For me, it starts with learning from people who are no like me.

Good post!

Timberwolf123 said...

Thanks Jane I appreciate your comment....so many look for outside gratification to find joy. That kind of joy is based only on the Ego and will never be a lasting joy. Once we begin to love ourselves & bring wonderment back into our lives we discover joy in everything.

Hugs,

Bill

Jane said...

I believe that joy is internal. Happiness depends on external circumstances. My life can be in a very unhappy state but it doesn't affect my joy unless i let it.

I think we are saying the same thing with different words.

EnJOY your evening.