The End!

 

The End

Of course a famous Beatles song with the closing lyrics of the greatest rock band ever.

"And in the end

The love you take

Is equal to the love you make."

But, what really happens in the end? Does life really matter? Will God/the universe give you a better life? All conjecture, as none of you reading this are dead, are you?

It's an age-old question, What happens to us when we die? Religion's believe that if you're a true follower you magically go to heaven, or any version of heaven that exists in their religion. But, there's so much misunderstanding about what that truly means. Is our only purpose in life to play out a pre-ordained set of rules to return to where we came from? It seems weird to believe that our life is only our time here on earth and everything is dependent on our behavior here. So, what if you screw it up, you're sunk for eternity.

Having lived through two events in my life that should have killed me (hit by lightning, doctors said 90% of people would have died, and heart surgery where 6 out of 9 doctors thought I'd die on the table.) I have a very different interpretation than most, and in fact, I had a near-death experience in the first experience.

I'm not here to trash any religion, believe what works for you, but I am here to question, why? If all we do is live our lives the best we can and we're done, what's the point? 

I, personally like Einstein's comment "Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be changed from one form to another," or what about what Aristotle said "(The)concept of the afterlife revolves around the idea that the soul continues to exist and function after the death of the body." Or maybe Plato "once the body dies, the soul goes to the "world of ideas", spends some time there in bliss, and then returns to this world in another mortal body."

Is that enough? I believe strongly that our essence our "soul" our "energy" never ceases to exist. We transform into something else.

The Hindu's have believed for over 3,000 years in reincarnation, that the soul goes on, and then returns to try again.

Currently, in our history, there's no scientific evidence to prove reincarnation or to dispute it. Many scientists believe it's plausible.

Now to quantum physics. Quantum physics believes in a theory that follows a "Many Worlds" approach Here are their ideas per AI;

"1. Many-Worlds Interpretation:

Quantum mechanics suggests that particles can exist in multiple states simultaneously until measured.

The Many-Worlds Interpretation extends this by proposing that when a measurement is made, the universe splits into multiple universes, each representing a different outcome.

For example, if a coin is flipped, in one universe it lands heads, and in another, it lands tails. 

2. Quantum Immortality:

This theory suggests that if one were to experience a fatal event, in one universe they would die, but in another, they would survive.

Since consciousness is linked to the quantum realm, the theory posits that it would shift to the universe where the individual survives.

Therefore, from the individual's perspective, they would never experience death, as their consciousness would always exist in a universe where they survive. 

3. Biocentrism:

This theory, while not directly related to quantum mechanics, also suggests that death may be an illusion.

Biocentrism proposes that life and consciousness are fundamental to the universe, and what we perceive as death is just a transition of consciousness.

It suggests that consciousness exists outside of time and space, and therefore, it can persist even after physical death. 

4. Quantum Suicide:

This is a thought experiment that explores the implications of the Many-Worlds Interpretation and quantum immortality.

It involves a hypothetical scenario where an individual performs a measurement that could result in death, and according to the theory, they would always survive in their own subjective experience. 

5. Limitations and Criticisms:

While intriguing, quantum immortality is a theoretical concept and not a widely accepted scientific theory.

There is no empirical evidence to support the idea of consciousness shifting between universes.

The concept raises philosophical questions about the nature of consciousness and its relationship to the physical world."

But, we've already heard from the philosophers who believe much of the same thing. So, as quantum physics continues to grow and learn, will we have proof one day?

I believe the answer to that is "Yes", at some point science will be able to prove it.

I stand strongly in the belief that death is just a different phase of existence, and our "soul" continues on through eternity. We live in an ever-expanding universe, where there is still much to learn. Throughout the history of man, these ideas have traveled through time and continue in different forms today. Are you convinced? Believe what works for you, but I believe there's more for us to accomplish. We are pure energy, that's the only way we exist. Let's work together to change our world, or any other worlds we may be a part of. Together we can do anything, and by accessing the wisdom of the ancients and the scientists of day we are unstoppable.

Until next time,

Bill

Quote of the day "The end of man is only prophesied by men of destruction and greed. We are stronger than those words. Be the best person you can be, now and forever."

Together we are unstoppable!

 Our nation is split like never before. The latest I've seen shows Pres. Trump won with 49.7%, and Vice Pres Harris ended with 48.2%. It's truly sad that we can't find a way to come together.

It seems today that acrimony and hate is at the highest rate than we've seen in decades... why? 

We are all neighbors. Often, we are friends, we respect one another, we help one another, but somehow, it's ok to hate if "they" disagree with us.

What??? We need to come together like never before, not because we agree, but because we care about our community, about our neighborhood.

We're in a new territory now. Our division won't accomplish anything. It's only through partnerships, working together that we can truly accomplish anything.

Together, we are a nation that no one can beat. We are the shining light of the world! Why should America ever be looked down upon. We are the nation that most of the world aspires to be. Why should we fall a part within ourselves? 

We are on the brink of another civil war. Why? Because we don't talk anymore. We retreat to where we feel comfortable, where we hear the voices that agree with us. Where life feels normal, but that's no way to live. This country was built under patriots that disagreed about many things, but somehow, someway, we came together to create the greatest nation in the history of the world!

So revel in your win, lick your wounds in your loss, but come together to keep this nation the greatest ever!

Together, we can accomplish anything, separated we can accomplish nothing.

Till next time,

Bill

Quote of the day: "Believe in your neighbor, in your community, and in this nation. Together, we can accomplish anything. Be a part of the solution and welcome those who disagree."

The Power of One can become the Power of Many

The Power of One

I think today the beauty that people hold inside is lost amongst all the noise we deal with in

 our society. Remember we are all one. We may believe we have something different to

 say or do but in reality, if we take the time to look inside to who we truly are we'll understand

 that in the deepest place in our soul that we are all one. For centuries we've pushed to

 separate ourselves from one another to find our own happiness, wealth or prestige, when all

 we've ever really needed was to embrace each other. Not as friends or colleagues, sure

 sometimes that's all we can do. But, if we truly look at who we are, we'll know, with

certainty, that we are connected to everyone on a much deeper level than we ever believed

 was possible & through this true soulful connection we can make anything happen. The belief

that we are separated or different is built on lies from the people in power. They know that if

 they separate us or create issues between us they can control us. Don't believe in all the

 noise, open your heart & look at everyone in your life knowing that they are you & you are

 them. Disagree if you must, but allow the true connection we've had since the beginning of

 time. We are one & together everything is possible, we are love & through compassion & love

 we create a link that can never be broken. Don't listen to the noise! Listen to who you truly

 are, for together we can change the world for the better, separated we are pawns in

 a bigger game. Your true voice is all that matters, no matter how much you been ignored

before, no matter how quiet your voice has seemed. Now is the time to scream from the

rooftops that I love this world & everyone in it because we are one from the dawn of time & we

shall be one again.

 

Till next time,

 

Bill

 

Quote of the day: "Believe in your power, your voice and your heart because you are a powerful individual in this time of noise." 

A Brave New World

A Brave New World

Sometimes in life facing the new day takes a power & energy beyond what others in our life know. We stumble because we don't believe that we have the strength to go on, when truly that strength is always within us. 

We need to look at the new day as an opportunity, instead of a challenge and realize that with each new day we move beyond the fear that holds us back. For without releasing that fear and moving forward in our lives we become stuck and stagnate and never become who we are truly meant to be.

Yes, somedays it takes great bravery to move forward and let go of all the yesterdays that have piled up inside of us. But, truly the only path forward is in focusing on what is possible in this new day and being grateful for the opportunity to have a fresh start.

All those yesterdays can be a huge burden to carry with you and the ability to let them go is not an easy one. You are braver than you believe you are and the secret to letting those burdens go is set firmly inside of you.

If the past year has taught us anything it is to be resilient and it takes being brave to find that resiliency. Trust in our strength, even when it feels like it's fading, and believe that every morning is a new opportunity, a new chance to live the life you've always dreamt of.

Yes, we live in a challenging time right now and it feels sometimes that we are facing a brave new world because of the daily changes we face. Just remember that you have the power to change everything in your life and you have the strength to make it happen.

Start each morning with things you are grateful for. No matter how small they are, they will begin to change the world around you by bringing a change in your outlook to the new day. Then compliment yourself on the things you have accomplished in the past day or two. We to often are ready to give praise to everyone in our our lives but ourselves. This will give you strength and purpose because slowly you will start to believe in yourself.

You are amazing and there is no one as unique as you. You have the power of God/Universe within you, you can connect with that power anytime you allow yourself to feel it. We are all one, connected by spirit and the more we allow ourselves to feel that connection, that oneness, the more we can face this brave new world!

Till next time,

Bill

Quote of the day: "You are braver than you believe you are and you can discover that strength by reconnecting with spirit!"

Compassion

Compassion

I’ve written a lot over the years about the importance of discovering love in your life. First, the love for yourself, as everything in this world begins with where we are at and what we manifest. But in times like these I think we need to go beyond love, we need to find true compassion.

So what is compassion? The dictionary describes compassion as: “a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering.”

Today with everything going on in the world it’s easy to fall into the trap of negativity. To “pick” on others to give us some sense of power because we have no control over our own lives. But I propose doing the exact opposite, discovering compassion for yourself and your fellow human being.

We live in a world that is broken because we have lost the ability to talk. We have more access to information and the ability to communicate than we have ever had before but we use these resources in limited ways, we only read what we agree with and communicate to be right, not to listen and learn.

This has caused the world to become fractured, each of us only allowing ourselves to be with the people we agree with. Unfortunately this sets us back to the time of early man where most communication was not possible. So, we went by our perception, our gut or our belief that a tribe, a person, a country was a threat to who we truly are.

Why should we go backwards? Why can’t we use technology to grow together? I would suggest it is because of our egos,  because we have moved away from the ability to listen, truly listen and we have decided that everything outside of what we believe is not only wrong, but it is a threat to our actual being.

This could not be further from the truth, but our ego wants to be right, our ego likes the false sense of control, and our ego decides that we are all that truly matters! Love and compassion are the gateway beyond the ego. Only by truly caring for another can we get to a place where we are willing to open our mind and our hearts to what is truly possible.

Find compassion in your life, discover what it is like to be more than yourself, not to satisfy your ego of being the great person you are, but to open your heart to someone that really needs your help and right now there are millions that do. Let go of the anger, be willing to listen, and be willing to open your mind to other possibilities.

Only by continuing to grow to do we learn to be selfless. 

Till next time,

Bill

Quote of the day: “Compassion brings us beyond ourselves to feel and care for another. Today, it is more important than ever to find compassion; be the selfless person you were meant to be.”

The Fear of Change

The Fear of Change

Let’s face it, the world has changed forever and things will never go back to the way they used to be. Certainly, some things will feel close to the same but with everything we’re going through, things will be different going forward.

So why do we fear change so much? I wrote many years ago Thinking through Change were I addressed some of the reason we fear change. But, in today’s unlimited environment, where we are deluged by information from sources all across the world, fear is perpetuated even more.

Often in this environment we actually choose fear because we don’t know how to cope with everything that is happening around us. But, that choice is always the wrong choice. When we choose fear, we choose to live in a heightened state that our bodies cannot maintain for an extended period of time.

So, we become fatigued, we become restless and we become easily agitated. Is this the life you really want to live? I seriously doubt it. So, how do we change our behavior? I personally limit my exposure to the news. I watch for 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes in the evening, that is it.

I also choose to scroll past many of the social media posts I see. The ones I do choose to interact with are from proven sources and not conjecture created just to keep you in the state of fear. Fear is a great way to control people. Why? Because it feeds on itself, it needs more information because it (fear) believes that the only way to lessen the fear is to learn more and more about it. The problem is, in today’s environment much of what you read is not fact and is actually out there to encourage you to stay in fear.

The next way I move past fear is to do things that make me happy; take a walk in the outdoors, listen to music, read, or just take some time to be quiet. Once you begin the pattern of disconnecting from the sources of the fear, your body will begin to return to a normal state and you will feel much better.

Yes, the world is changing but instead of fearing that change, embrace it and make it the best that it can be. We will come through this together and we will live our lives again, stop the fear, be the change.

Till next time,                                                                                                                                           

Bill

Quote of the day: “Only by accepting the change in our lives can we begin to rediscover the lives we truly seek.”

Dealing with Grief!

Let me start by saying that I am no expert on grief. I know there are people out there that know how to help others through the process. I'm just someone who is trying to deal with the loss of someone close to me.

Maybe I have been lucky in life, the people I have lost so far that were important to me have been very few at the age of 56; I lost my grandmother when I was very young 8 I believe, I lost my grandfather when I was 20 and because of my age I did not realize how much his loss meant to me till very much later in life, I lost a friend when I was in theatre in a tragic car accident and while dealing with his loss I had to go on for him the next night on stage, Then I lost my Dad 11 years ago and that loss took me almost a year to get over, finally a few weeks ago I lost my sister.

My sister Lori was one of the strongest women I have ever known. She was the sister [I have 4] that always stood up for me when I needed someone to. She had some medical issues over the years but always came through them with flying colors and a smile on her face.

Well about a month ago she was diagnosed with inoperable brain cancer and given 1 to 2 weeks to live. She made it 2.5 weeks but her loss has really shaken me. She was only 58.

So how do you move through grief? My answer is only straight on. I have tried to feel the loss, I have tried to move beyond the pain but the truth is all I have really felt over the past few weeks is numb.

If you bury the pain of your loss all that will happen is you will see it come back at the most inopportune time and it will come back much stronger than you can ever imagine. 

I have found myself having a very difficult time concentrating and my short term memory has been very bad. These are all things that are "normal" at this stage of grief but I am the positive one. I am the one that always finds a way forward.

So how do you deal with grief? I think it something like the old Paula Abdul song "Opposites Attract." Sometimes you have to "take two steps forward and two steps back." I believe grief is a process and I believe it is different for everyone.

My advice is to always continue moving forward, take time for yourself, find things and people that make you laugh, know that as Einstein says; "Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be changed from one form to another.” 

The way forward is different for everyone but this is a time to ask for help when you need it. To know that with time things will get better and to believe that nothing can take away the memories you cherish of the person you lost.

Trust in yourself and trust in those around you that care about you. There is no hard and fast rule for what is right or what you can or cannot do. For me, right now, the hardest thing is talking about it...it brings me to tears almost every time I do.

Ask for help if you need it or find someone you can talk to honestly to help you through the pain. Remember that everyday is a new opportunity and even at the darkest hour of your grief, a simple step forward can change your world in ways you can not even imagine.

Till next time,

Bill

Quote of the day: "The process and pain of grief is something that affects us all differently. trust yourself, trust your family and friends, ask for help if you need it. But never give up, always take one step forward even if you end up going backward!"