Thursday, April 8, 2010

Tearing down the walls



Do you put up walls? Do you compartmentalize your life? Do you decide what you'll allow others to see? I think from time to time we all hide behind the walls that we build in our lives. Why do we build them? Mostly for what we perceive is protection. We believe that by hiding things about ourselves we are protecting ourselves from the world. We've become so conditioned in our life that we're afraid to feel anything but especially pain. We scared to death about being hurt.

Fear is a deadly emotion it robs us from living the joyful life we want so desperately to live. We justify everything in our life by hiding behind fear & the truth is all the fear we create isn't real. Rarely do we ever experience the things we imagine but yet we justify our behavior because of what we imagine.

In our life we put up so many walls to hide behind because of the fear we have of being hurt. Now don't misunderstand, in the world today it's important to keep some information about yourself from the world especially on-line because their are people out their who will take advantaged of the information. But in our day to day life we don't need to hide from who we are. We are so concerned about what others think of us. That we're scared to be who we are.

This isn't the way to live your life. In order to discover more love & joy in your life you need to open yourself up. Sure sometimes you can get hurt but overall you'll discover more joy by being who you are. You'll learn that most of the fear you had is not justified & that people, overall, are loving & compassionate. In addition remember that the universe reflects back to us what we are. So if we come from a place of fear, we will be confronted by the fear more & more till we let it go. God/universe will always try to help us grow. It will continue to send us the messages we need to hear to move beyond who are & to become the loving being we all can be.

So what happens if you don't know who you are? The first step is always self discovery. You need to take time to get to know yourself. In the mean time be open & loving to everyone you meet. As you discover what's important in your life & who you are, be true to yourself.

Tear down the walls in your life. Open your heart, open your life & be true to yourself. The world is here to welcome you. Stop hiding & you will discover more joy.

Till Monday,

Bill

Quote of the day: Tear down the walls in your life. Open your heart to love & God/universe will send you more love! Be who you are, we're waiting to love you!"






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5 comments:

Ron Cooper said...

Yes, I agree wholeheartedly! To be open is not necessarily to be more vulnerable, but to be more lovable!

Timberwolf123 said...

Thanks Ron, I appreciate the comment. It's very true that most people believe that opening up is a bad thing. The truth is it's freeing!!

Hugs,

Bill

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Anahid said...

I agree! By putting up walls you alienate everyone around you. Humans are relational beings & we all need a sense of love & community. It might be difficult/scary to tear down the walls, but as you said Bill, it is definitely freeing!

pr0udmom0f3 said...

Nice one, Bill! I myself know that there have been walls that I placed up on many occasions. Mainly to shut myself off from the world out of fear of what they thought of me as I went through the emotions of loss, hurt, anger, resentment and disappointment.